I see stories posted of ladies coming out late, in their '30s. I'm 60, I came out about 3 years ago. I still feel like a baby gay. Even through the last 3 years I feel like there's things I should have done differently and wish I did. I truly wish I had someone to talk with early on. I just ended my second relationship with a woman and it is so hard. I did jump from the first relationship to the second, which was a huge mistake. I should have taken time for myself, to figure things out., to figure myself out.. Is anyone out there around my age and found themselves in a similar situation? I have no community where I live and feel so alone at times. I want to do it right this time and figure out what I want and need first so I can be there for me and my future partner.