coming out stories.

I’m listening to episode #137 of LC. It’s exactly where my husband and I are right now. I’m so paralyzed with fear of all the unknowns I can’t move. I’m afraid of instability, finances, loneliness, growing old alone, retirement & family support.

How do you find trust and bravery to move in any direction? How do I calm my nervous system long enough to know what’s in my heart?

“Without fear you have access to your imagination”

I would love to connect with in person/Zoom support groups. I can’t seem to find anything. If anyone knows of groups, please let me know.

LC should start a group 😉

Thanks for listening.

Hey y'all!

I’ve been a wallflower in this community for a hot minute, and it feels like time to finally join the conversation and share my coming-out story.

My closet exit had a “No shit, Sherlock!” vibe. That bright rainbow of writing had covered the wall for years. I just happened to keep my eyes fixed on the ground in front of me all the time with the bill of my Braves baseball cap blocking my view.

I mean, hell, I bought a red Subaru and named her Xena Warrior Princess two months to the day before I came out to myself. And a few months earlier, I took a man I was trying to date to an Indigo Girls show, with the (unfortunately straight) sisters of Larkin Poe as the opener. Later that night, when he caught a glimpse of my TomboyX boxer briefs, I declared, “I promise I’m not a lesbian!”

Lesbian Chronicles LIVE! Join us at the Reverie Ballroom in Seattle, WA on October 18, 2025 at 7:00 PM for an evening of empowerment, laughs, and shared experiences. Hosts Alli and Melisa will share stories, answer questions, and keep us entertained all night!

Whether you're in the middle of navigating your own sexuality journey or just want to be in community with other queer women, this event is for you. Let's laugh, cry, and celebrate together.

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AGENDA

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 18

I wrote this a year ago and as I sat and thought tonight what PRIDE month means to me it is so much more than parades and drag shows and flags flying high. It is the acknowledgment of pain and sacrifice of countless queer individuals. It is a declaration of freedom and acceptance of oneself even if that means disownment by others. PRIDE is the life saving breath that filled my emptiness when I was told I was disowned, undeserving, dead and damned. We celebrate PRIDE in June, but it’s the story of how I came to have and experience my own PRIDE that I carry with me always.

I hesitate to share…the story needs work, there are many gaps that still need filled and it’s unpolished. But it’s raw and it’s real and it MY PRIDE

June 2020

It’s PRIDE month; June. It wasn’t too long ago that …